You never know how good you had it until you’ve lost it. That’s America right now (or at least most of it anyways) remembering the eight-year relationship they had with Barack Obama.

Sure, not everything was dandy, and we had a few of those memorable fights over stuff (drone strikes come to mind). But geez, America’s new bae, (sigh) Donald Trump, is making us wish we had ol’ Barry back.

Obama, on the other hand, seems to be flourishing. The 44th President of the United States was recently captured enjoying some water sports and soaking up the rays.

Oooh, Betsy DeVos is our new education secretary? Muslim ban? Fake news?

Obama: Who dis?

Twitter appropriately captioned Obama’s exuberant vacationing. He’s become the ex and we’ve all become that creepy stalker. Check out some of the best tweets about Barack Obama as now America’s ex below.