R&B songbird Jhené Aiko celebrated her 31st birthday on March 16 surrounded by family, friends, joy and jokes, courtesy of singer-songwriter and her big sister, Mila J.

During what appeared to be Jhene’s birthday-dinner outing, the Trip songstress hopped on Instagram Live as fans poured birthday wishes and love out to her. Her sister can be heard in the background blurting out, “Wait, so, when do you want to do the gender reveal—wait, are you still on live?” Jhene can simply be seen smiling and then hanging up the live session as Mila continues to joke, “Oh, my gosh! Oh, my gosh! Wait, hang up! End it, end it, end it!”