What was supposed to be a happy birthday post from Salt-N-Pepa’s Sandra to her Man Crush Monday quickly turned messy after her significant other’s alleged wife threw (or hurled, rather) her two cents in.

The “Push It” femcee sent the loving message to her significant other, Aundre Dean, via Instagram, reminding him to “keep pushing and being a good dad” and that “God will handle the rest.”

Apparently, Dean’s alleged wife found the post to be especially humorous after boldly making claims of Pep’s side-chick status and accusing her of being the rift in his relationship with his children.

“When mistresses talk about God…it’s laughable!” she wrote. “’Keep being a good dad? @iamaundre can’t keep his visitation with his son because @darealpepa is parading him around the country.”

She clarified that she still holds Dean as the person responsible, and alleged his failure to pay child support and even breaking, entering and vandalizing her apartment. As for Pepa, whom she calls a “D list, has-been, senior citizen celebrity,” she has decided to let go and let God.

“Liar….saying she was your boss,” she concluded. “Introducing me to her & asking me if SHE could be our daughter’s god mother! #fatheroftheyear.”

Pep took the higher road and decided not to respond to the woman—directly, that is. Instead, she spoke her peace when a fan dropped the drama on her page asking her to “address these side b**ch allegations from his wife.” In due time, Pepa responded.

“Everyone will know the deal when it’s time because I’m gonna do it big,” she said during her exchange with the pressing fan.

Dean, who kept himself out of the exchange, seconded Pepa’s initial post as well.

“We gone be [alright]!” he wrote. “Dat Way!”

That (de)escalated quickly.

Peep Pepa’s cool, calm collection to the allegations below.