How to Deal When Your Family Doesn't Like Your Man

Finding a happy middle ground is possible.

Family Matters - When entering into a romantic relationship, one of the first things many women seek is the approval of their parents — and unfortunately, things don't always go as planned. It's never fun to learn of your family's dislike of your man, but hopefully these tips will help you bring the most important people in your life together to find a happy middle ground. By Dontaira Terrell  (Photo: Beathan/Corbis)

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Family Matters - When entering into a romantic relationship, one of the first things many women seek is the approval of their parents — and unfortunately, things don't always go as planned. It's never fun to learn of your family's dislike of your man, but hopefully these tips will help you bring the most important people in your life together to find a happy middle ground. By Dontaira Terrell  (Photo: Beathan/Corbis)

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Family Matters

One-on-One - Voice your concerns, especially if you’re feeling misunderstood by your family. You’d be surprised how it may actually help them gain a better understanding of your relationship, and most importantly, the happiness you share with your mate.  (Photo: Mango Productions/Corbis)

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One-on-One

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Don't Leave Him in the Dark

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Take a Moment

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Don't Sweat the Small Stuff - Sometimes, we just have to roll with the punches. If your family makes condescending jokes or snide remarks about your relationship, it’s best to ignore or keep it moving. No need to get into a verbal blowout with them because romantic partners come and go. Your family, however, is here to stay. So think before you speak. (Photo: Ronnie Kaufman/Larry Hirshowitz//Blend Images/Corbis)

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Don't Sweat the Small Stuff

Visit Your Elderly Neighbor - That nice lady who lives upstairs who never gets any visitors? We bet she’d love to have you sit with her for an hour a week.  (Photo: Patrick Lane Photography/Corbis)

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Give It Time

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Don't Make It Awkward - It’s a very tense situation for everyone involved, so don’t try to force a relationship between your beau and family. Also, when surrounded by family, try to keep the conversation topics on the lighter side, especially in the beginning, because a difference of opinion on sensitive or meaningful topics probably won’t go over so well. (Photo: Don Bayley/Getty Images)

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Don't Make It Awkward