Speak Up: Talking to Bae About HIV and Safer Sex
December 1 is World AIDS Day!
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Talk It Out - December 1 is World AIDS Day, and while we know that communicating about sex, condom use and HIV is key to reducing your risk of transmitting the disease, it isn’t that easy to do. Here are some tips on talking about the epidemic with your bae in hopes to protect you both. By Kellee Terrell (Photo: Brooke Fasani Auchincloss/Corbis)
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Why You Have to Speak Up - It’s not a secret that Black women are disproportionately impacted by the HIV/AIDS epidemic here in the U.S. While we make up a mere 13 percent of the female population, almost 75 percent of new HIV infections impact us each year. Yes, lack of health care, poverty and gender inequality help fuel this epidemic, but you have to speak up and be open with your partner about safe sex and your health because your life depends on it. (Photo: Paul Simcock/Corbis)
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Be Clear If Monogamy Is Expected - While some people are OK with hall passes and open relationships, others are not — and it’s important to be crystal clear about your expectations of monogamy in your current relationship. Keep in mind: The more people you bring into your relationship, the more you could be at risk for HIV and STDs. So don’t be afraid to say something. (Photo: Sara Wight/Corbis)
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Be Honest About the Past - While you don’t have to tell him the exact number of sexual partners you’ve had and vice versa, it is important to be honest about the last time you have been tested for EVERYTHING, your history with contraception and any past STDs. Let him know this isn’t about judgment; it’s about being honest and protecting one another. (Photo: Artiga Photo/Corbis)
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Pick His Brain on HIV 101 - Yes it is 2015, but don’t assume he knows what he needs to know about the virus. A lot of men still think only down-low dudes get HIV, and the more myths he may co-sign on, the more at risk you might be. Having this conversation will help you gauge how to bring up other topics around this issue. (Photo: Sonja Pacho/Corbis)
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