9 Signs He’s Not That Into You

Are you on the right track or wasting your time?

Move On   - You’ve been hanging out with him for six months and you’re already having visions of making a life together. But does he want the same? If he does any of these things, the answer just might be “no.” By Kenrya Rankin Naasel(Photo: Jupiterimages/Getty Images)

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Move On   - You’ve been hanging out with him for six months and you’re already having visions of making a life together. But does he want the same? If he does any of these things, the answer just might be “no.” By Kenrya Rankin Naasel(Photo: Jupiterimages/Getty Images)

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He Told You He's Not Ready for Anything Serious - It’s amazing how easy it is to not believe folks when they tell you something. You will only be disappointed if you think your love will transform him and make him suddenly want to marry you and have 2.5 kids and a dog. If you want anything beyond a causal connection, go find it elsewhere.

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There’s an App for That? - Whether you want a reminder to do your self breast exams or need help managing your treatment schedule, there are apps to help take excellent care of your, ahem, assets. By Kenrya Rankin Naasel and Kellee Terrell (Photo: Hero Images/Getty Images)

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He Takes Forever to Call or Text You Back - It takes, what, ten seconds to respond to a text message? No one is too busy for that, especially when it involves someone as fabulous as you. If you constantly find yourself on hour 26 of him not saying anything to your, “Hey, how’s your day going? :-)” message, keep it moving. (Photo: Hero Images/Getty Images)

Be on Time - Whether it’s a lunch date with your best friend, meeting with your boss or a doctor's appointment for a checkup, avoid being late. Being on time is not only considerate but it shows you value the other person’s time just as much as you value your own. (Photo: JGI/Jamie Grill/Getty Images)

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He Isn’t Interested in Meeting Your People - Whether it’s a cookout with your family or a birthday dinner for one of your friends, he always has a reason why he can’t make it. And he never invites you to spend time with the people closest to him, either. It’s likely he has no intention of being around long enough for those relationships to matter.(Photo: JGI/Jamie Grill/Getty Images)

Real Talk - You would think that for as long as people have been having sex, we would collectively have a better understanding of it. But alas, there are several myths that refuse to die. Here, we break ’em down. By Kenrya Rankin Naasel (Photo: GettyImages) 

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He Doesn’t Make Plans - He’s super busy, he says, so you should just play it by ear when it comes to making plans. Or he mostly drops by at night (booty call, much?). Or you only go on actual dates when you schedule them. A man who wants you will take the initiative to see you. In daylight. (Photo: Getty Images)

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He Avoids PDA - He rarely hugs you or otherwise crosses into your personal space in public. And online, you’re like a ghost: This fool posted ten pictures from the party y’all attended last week, and you’re not in any of them. He clearly doesn’t want the world to know you exist, so you should get ghost for real. (Photo: Fuse/Getty Images)

Admit Your Faults - Look, sometimes you can be part of the problem, too. Remember: You are not perfect either. Ask your partner what they need from you. It’s up to you if you are willing to compromise, but you have to make an effort and you have to be open to change. (Photo: John Henley/Getty Images)

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He Treats You Like Every Other Girl - Sure, he should be a gentleman to all, but he should also make you feel special. Is he using his sexy voice with the waitress? Hanging on to every word the random chick in line behind you says? Rubbing the shoulders of his “best friend” in the corner? Giving all his attention to the big-booty chick who just walked by? No bueno. (Photo: John Henley/Getty Images)

Don’t Make it About the Other - It’s a cliché for a reason: “It’s not you, it’s me,” is a good strategy for being honest about why you’re leaving while simultaneously decreasing the chance of an argument popping off. Focus on how the relationship makes you feel — not on listing every single thing they’ve ever done to upset you. You’re already leaving, right? There’s no need to be mean about it. (Photo: Eric Raptosh Photography/Getty Images)

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He Doesn’t Mention a Future With You - He’s a man with a plan. He can envision his next job, the city where he wants to live and the car he plans to drive, but none of his musings about the future include you. He obviously doesn’t see you there — take the hint. (Photo: Eric Raptosh Photography/Getty Images)

DO focus on feelings. - Don’t just say what you’re upset about; the key to making him understand the impact of his actions is to explain how they make you feel. So rather than saying, “I hate when you yell,” try, “When you raise your voice, it makes me feel hurt and disrespected.” (Photo: Marcus Clackson/Getty Images)

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He Talks About His Ex(es)...a Lot - Maybe he’s still getting over his previous relationship. Or maybe he’s actually still in love with her (or still with her). Either way, he’s stuck in the past, which makes it impossible to create a future with you. (Photo: Marcus Clackson/Getty Images)

You’re Feeling Overwhelmed - Your stress, anxiety, inability to concentrate, or sadness is making it hard to complete daily tasks, from writing a report at work to playing with your kids. (Photo: Photodisc/Getty Images)

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He Makes Your Stomach Hurt - That queasy feeling in your gut? That’s your intuition telling you that he doesn’t feel the way you do. If you’re too nervous to reveal the true extent of your feelings, or you fear he will leave you if you hold him too tightly, then you already know he’s not the one. It may initially hurt to walk away, but listening to your inner voice will save you future heartache. (Photo: Photodisc/Getty Images)