How to Be More Resilient
Tips to help you build and draw on inner strength.
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Forward March - We all encounter setbacks, from failed relationships to missed promotions. But what’s really important is how we bounce back from them, and our ability to see beyond the stresses of today to the better times of tomorrow—and keep going until we reach them. Read on for tips to help you build and draw on inner strength to get you through tough times. By Kenrya Rankin Naasel (Photo: Tetra Images/Corbis)
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Sleep - It sounds strange, but getting an adequate amount of sleep is key to coping with the stressors that cause setbacks. So get your recommended seven to nine hours each night. (Photo: JGI/Jamie Grill/Getty Images)
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Listen to Your Thoughts - When you hear negativity creep in—like, “You constantly make stupid mistakes,” or “No one will ever want you”—be your own advocate and put a halt to that type of thought. Practice being kind to yourself the way you would be to your bestie if she were in a similar situation. (Photo: Michael Poehlman/Getty Images)
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Develop Strong Relationships - People who have loved ones—close parents, best friends, partners, church family—have an easier time bouncing back. Do what you can to strengthen those ties, and you’ll be rewarded with a support system you can count on. (Photo: Peathegee Inc/Getty Images)
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Put Things in Perspective - Yeah, the dude you thought could possibly be the one got someone else pregnant, but for real: that monkey doesn’t stop your show! And at least it happened now, after just a couple dates, rather than when y’all are married with your own family. That, my dear, is perspective. Buck up! (Photo: Stock Shop Photography LLC/Getty Images)
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