10 Reasons We Love Our Men

The benefits of having the right man in your life.

Love on Top - Men want to be him, women want to be with him — here are the top ten reasons we are madly in love with our men today and forever. By Kenrya Rankin Naasel (Photo: Hero Images/Getty Images)

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Love on Top - Men want to be him, women want to be with him — here are the top ten reasons we are madly in love with our men today and forever. By Kenrya Rankin Naasel (Photo: Hero Images/Getty Images)

He Has Become Private - His phone now has a security code on it, he’s taking calls in the bathroom or he has suddenly become the king of taking long walks to clear his head. What is he hiding? (Photo: Hero Images/Getty Images)

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Their Strength - The world can be incredibly hard on black men, but they keep moving forward, carrying our families along with them.(Photo: Hero Images/Getty Images)

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Their Swag - No one enters a room like a Black man. Whether dressed in a suit or jeans and Timbs, they exude confidence. And confidence is S-E-X-Y. (Photo: Hal Bergman/Getty Images)

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Their Reverence for Their Mamas - Their love for their mothers reflects their tremendous capacity to respect and care for us. (Photo: Comstock/Getty Images)

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Their Reverence for Their Mamas - Their love for their mothers reflects their tremendous capacity to respect and care for us. (Photo: Comstock/Getty Images)

1. Bring the Love - The most genuine and non-overpowering thing you can add to a space is love. So always come into a new atmosphere not to change it completely, but to change it together!  (Photo: Rob Lewine/Getty Images)

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Their Love for Us - They love us just the way we are: Head scarf-wearing, Love Jones-quoting, Drake lyric-singing, gorgeously thick-thighed, ’bout-her-business-being ladies.(Photo: Rob Lewine/Getty Images)

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1. Take a Cuddle Break - Most likely, the drive will be tiresome on both of you, no matter who's driving the most. As you pass through some cool destinations, it wouldn't hurt to take a cuddle break. Plus, it'll help you all remember why you made the trip in the first place. (Photo: Hero Images/Getty Images)

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Their Hand on Our Back - That firm touch on the small of our back doesn’t just help us navigate through crowds, it reassures us that our safety is his priority and tells everyone else that he’s there. #SoBackUp (Photo: Hero Images/Getty Images)

Why Men and Boys Have to Be Part of the Conversation - Given that rapists usually rape women of the same race, it’s really important that we have open and honest conversations and more programs teaching Black men and boys what healthy consensual sex looks like and how to respect women. (Photo: Jupiterimages/Getty Images)

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Their Need to Solve Our Problems - We know you just needed to vent, but the moment they hear you’re in distress, they go into problem solving mode. It’s just one of the ways that they show their love. (Photo: Jupiterimages/Getty Images)

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Their Immense Sweetness  - This side is reserved just for us (and when they see puppies). We adore the way they go all gentle in private.(Photo: Blend Images/Hill Street Studios/Getty Images)

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Their Loyalty - Whether it’s protecting his little cousin or helping his homeboy through a difficult time, we love that they always remember who their friends are and don’t hesitate to treat them well.(Photo: Daniel H. Bailey/Getty Images)

Is He a Man of His Word? - He’s the first person you call if you’re ever in a state of panic or frenzy. With him you never have to worry about unfulfilled promises because he makes sure his words match his actions. A trusting man is worthy of being trusted with your feelings. (Photo: Matt Carr/Getty Images)

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Their Facial Hair - Have you ever noticed that other dudes don’t really wear facial hair? Probably because it will never look as good as it does on our men. In fact, we bet you can’t even imagine your dad, brother, crush or boyfriend without his awesome mustache and beard. Distinguished gentlemen, indeed. (Photo: Matt Carr/Getty Images)

Idris Elba: September 6 - The No Good Deed actor still keeps the ladies melting at 42.(Photo: Joe Scarnici/Getty Images for The Weinstein Company)

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Idris Elba - This man is so fine he deserves a spot just for him on this list. You're welcome.(Photo: Joe Scarnici/Getty Images for The Weinstein Company)