Girl Code: Tips on Being a Better Best Friend
Follow these rules, and you’ll have a sister for life.
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Friends Forever - Men may come and go, but your bestie is forever. So it’s important to do everything you can to be an amazing friend to her. Follow these tips, and you’ll have a sister for life. By Kenrya Rankin Naasel
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Show Up - Whether she needs you to come pick her up in the middle of the night because she discovered her boyfriend is crazy, or wants you by her side to celebrate her birthday, do what you can to be there for her, even when she doesn’t ask — because that’s when she needs you the most. (Photo: Peathegee Inc/Getty Images)
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Be Honest — Especially When It’s Hard - If she can’t count on you to be honest, who can she trust? If she asks for your opinion on her current relationship or she tanked a job interview and you have some insight as to why, be straight with her. Don’t be brutal, but tell the truth. She might not appreciate it in the moment, but she’ll know that you have her best interests at heart. (Photo: JGI/Tom Grill/GettyImages)
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Don’t Be a Vampire - Successful relationships require give and take. If you suck up all her energy, goodwill and light without reflecting it back to her, she’ll eventually get tired of giving you life. (Photo: Dieter Spears/GettyImages)
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Schedule Dates - You might chat every day, but five-minute gripe sessions about your bosses don’t constitute a real talk. It can be a marathon phone convo, brunch after church, or a movie night, but make time to check in regularly to see how she’s doing. This is especially important if she lives in another city. (Photo: Peathegee Inc/GettyImages)
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