It must be hard for Rory Farquharson.

Well, being the boyfriend of Malia Obama is really cool. And well, having open dialogue with Barack and Michelle must be almost as cool. But all the eyes on you… Ugh.

It’s something Malia’s parents are recognizing. That’s why they reportedly sent a letter to Rory about what it means to be famous.

According to the Daily Mail, the letter apologies for being “so famous.” They’re also concerned about the attention their daughter’s fame might bring on Rory.

That seems to be no big deal for him. He’s reportedly not that worried over it and his pedigree makes it understandable. Farquharson is a former head boy at top public school Rugby. His parents are also reportedly loaded, living in a $2 million home in Suffolk.

Malia and Rory met while studying at Harvard University last year and have been an item ever since.