Anyone who watches "Tyler Perry’s Sistas" knows Gary, one of the most notorious villains in the Tyler Perry Universe. Chido Nwokocha, the talented actor behind the character, is so convincing in his portrayal that fans sometimes give him a hard time in real life. But Nwokocha is nothing like Gary—he’s sane, accomplished, and probably someone you’d actually enjoy spending time with. Here are six moments that prove Nwokocha is living his best life and is far more charming than his on-screen alter ego.

1. Being Charming on Tamron Hall

Nwokocha and some of his Sistas co-stars recently appeared on The Tamron Hall Show, where he discussed how playing Gary affects him off-screen. Even his mom finds Gary disturbing, and Nwokocha hilariously shared how people’s perceptions of the character sometimes spill over into real life. The comments on this post are both hilarious and thirst-filled.

2. Turning Heads at the NAACP Image Awards

Nwokocha knows how to make an impression, especially when it comes to fashion. He stepped out in a sharp suit at the NAACP Image Awards alongside his Sistas co-star and real-life friend, Devale Ellis. The two looked dapper, and the comments are a must-read!

3. Jet-Setting Across the Globe

Nwokocha is an avid traveler and often shares snapshots of his adventures. Last fall, he was in Budapest, looking effortlessly stylish in a gray peacoat and sweatshirt. His travel photos are as impressive as his acting.

4. Serving Thirst Traps While Traveling

When he’s not exploring new places, Nwokocha knows how to turn up the heat. In this poolside shot from Jamaica, he shows off the results of his fitness regimen. One of the funniest comments sums it up: “I see why Andi kept going back.”

5. Taking Dance Lessons in Colombia

In his most recent travel video, Nwokocha gives us a glimpse of his dance moves during a trip to Colombia. Don’t blink, or you might miss him nailing those dance steps—it’s clear he’s having a great time.

6. Spending Quality Time with Family

Nwokocha often talks about his mom in interviews and shares playful moments with his younger brother online. It’s heartwarming to see how much he values his family, even if it means teasing his little brother from time to time.